Kenwood Nurse Practitioner says “Memories” Can Make Thoughtful Gifts for People with Cancer

From OHC, Specialists in the Treatment of Adult Cancers and Blood Disorders

December 20, 2019

Tracy Schoenhoft, MSN, APRN, advanced practice provider at OHC’s Kenwood office

This time of year, there are numerous Internet posts and articles about thoughtful gift ideas for patients with cancer. The cancer team at OHC would like to offer another idea that might make the holiday of your loved one or someone you know extra special.

“Our patients are so deeply appreciative of gifts that help them through their treatment,” said Tracy Schoenhoft, MSN, APRN, advanced practice provider at OHC’s Kenwood office. “Items like lotions, shawls, and soft lounge wear are perfect when they’re receiving treatments. But many have shared with us that they also like things that give them a ‘mental break’ from cancer; things that aren’t associated with their disease or treatment.”

For example, if your family member with cancer loves to bake, consider making a batch of their favorite cookies and a book of their recipes. If possible, include pictures of gatherings where their cookies were served and appear in the photos.

Your gift doesn’t even have to be an item. For example, you could take them out for lunch at their favorite restaurant. At your family holiday dinner, you can go around the table and share your favorite memory of each person at the table, including your loved one with cancer. It could also be an opportunity to start a tradition.

“Maybe this is the year you create a new memory that could become a holiday tradition,” said Tracy. “Pick up some inexpensive Santa hats, have everyone wear one and take a group picture. You can give everyone a copy of the picture or even have it printed on an ornament or magnet. Another idea is to play a game like Pictionary, poker or charades, that becomes a fun holiday tradition. This engages the patient in an activity that can help them forget they have cancer, even if just for the day.”

It’s important to remember that cancer doesn’t define who a patient is. They have hobbies, special interests, friends, and careers. And many like an opportunity to forget about cancer for a day or two and focus on what they enjoyed before cancer and what they’re looking forward to after cancer.

There are many things you can do to support your loved one with cancer, not just during the holidays but year-round. For a list of cancer community organizations and the services they offer, visit here.